Is it cheating if you have to pay for it? [Archive]

Llama Juice

January 21st, 2009, 08:45 AM

Well? If you get a hooker, and you have a girlfriend... is it cheating on your girlfriend if you have sex with the hooker?

Discuss.

Bodzilla

January 21st, 2009, 08:56 AM

obviously.
your dick is going to other places without her.

Limited

January 21st, 2009, 09:03 AM

Why would you need a hooker if you got a GF? Also yes it would be cheating, you're being unfaithful.

Bodzilla

January 21st, 2009, 09:08 AM

Kornman00

January 21st, 2009, 09:09 AM

Why would you need a hooker if you got a GF? Also yes it would be cheating, you're being unfaithful.
its like asking why do you need a mistress with you have a wife. They don't always put out to the man's expectance. Solution? Lower your standards, or this.

Bodzilla

January 21st, 2009, 09:10 AM

Bad girls ftw.

CtrlAltDestroy

January 21st, 2009, 12:20 PM

That's like asking if a crime is still a crime if you bribe the officer... :eyesroll:

MetKiller Joe

January 21st, 2009, 12:38 PM

That's like asking if a crime is still a crime if you bribe the officer... :eyesroll:

Its only a crime if you get caught ;).

And in the case of hookers, not only can you get caught you can get AIDS.

Amit

January 21st, 2009, 12:42 PM

Its only a crime if you get caught ;).

It's still a crime since you know it is. You're getting caught by yourself but prosecuted by another if they catch you.

And in the case of hookers, not only can you get caught you can get AIDS.

Use a condom? (no oral sex)

AnsweredTFY

Apoc4lypse

January 21st, 2009, 12:58 PM

obviously.
your dick is going to other places without her.

rofl

Snowy

January 21st, 2009, 04:13 PM

AnsweredTFY
condoms don't protect against aids. Neither does oral sex.

And without a doubt, it's cheating. Unless, it's a threesome, of course. :-3

Needles

January 21st, 2009, 04:20 PM

It's cheating.

Donut

January 21st, 2009, 04:23 PM

something tells me that sheer curiosity isnt the only thing driving this question

Phopojijo

January 21st, 2009, 04:24 PM

Yeah... it's cheating UNLESS your wife/girlfriend/fiancee/husband/boyfriend/etc consents.

... and let's face it... if they're open-minded enough that they consent, you probably have little reason to pay for it.

dark57

January 21st, 2009, 04:26 PM

something tells me that sheer curiosity isnt the only thing driving this question
.

Mr Buckshot

January 21st, 2009, 04:29 PM

whether you have a gf or not, doing business with prostitutes is stupid and immoral.

and yes it is cheating, unless the gf likes threesomes and welcomes the hooker as part of the orgy.

Phopojijo

January 21st, 2009, 04:31 PM

Yeah... morality isn't really a universal perception.

Best to say "Illegal".

Heathen

January 21st, 2009, 05:26 PM

Yes, its cheating.

Limited

January 21st, 2009, 07:23 PM

Does she have one of those "you can go nuts for one weekend with a guilt free pass, but choose wisely cause after that, your balls are fucking mine" type argument?

i know a few people that have got them.
Pfft, guilt free passes dont exist, if you do hook up with someone and tell her/she finds out she still goes fucking ape shit.

Bodzilla

January 21st, 2009, 07:33 PM

oh yes they do exist ;p

some people are very very open minded when it comes to this sort of thing.

Limited

January 21st, 2009, 07:38 PM

t3h m00kz

January 21st, 2009, 07:39 PM

I was expecting a thread about Gameshark or Action Replay. :saddowns:

Mr Buckshot

January 21st, 2009, 07:41 PM

I was expecting a thread about Gameshark or Action Replay. :saddowns:

same :( I could be debating for long hours about THAT.

Agnaiel

January 21st, 2009, 07:58 PM

Me too.

And, I think it's just a matter of who it is you're cheating on. Personally, if my girlfriend ever did that with a hooker/whatever you call them, I would be hurt badly.

LinkandKvel

January 21st, 2009, 08:01 PM

I was expecting a thread about Gameshark or Action Replay. :saddowns:

same :( I could be debating for long hours about THAT.

Me too.

lul u guys are lonely. May I recommend the stranger? Cheating...............no...It's like going to a store of a good friend and buying lots and lots of shit for them to support their business, then turning around and buying from another store behind their back.......she'll get pissed regardless.....actually come to think of it...in that case its cheating if the only thing you have in common is sex....or I could be all wrong and it's just straight out cheating.

^bet that sent you guys into a perspective you've never thought about before.

cheezdue

January 21st, 2009, 08:02 PM

Well fuck yeah it will be cheating.

Rook

January 21st, 2009, 08:02 PM

Think about it this way, would you want you girlfriend having sex with other men, for money or not.

When that answer comes to you then you can decide if it's tolerable for you to have sex with another women, paid or not.

Heathen

January 21st, 2009, 09:08 PM

Bodzilla

January 21st, 2009, 09:10 PM

my friends actually do have those systems.

was about to hook up with one only the other week on one of those free pass's.

n00b1n8R

January 21st, 2009, 10:33 PM

its like asking why do you need a mistress with you have a wife.
Sex. :downs:

OT: What a stupid question.
Are you fucking another chick? Yes? Then you're cheating, unless your GF expressly gave you permission like zilla said (and it's pretty shit form if you ask for the permission yourself).

Ifafudafi

January 21st, 2009, 10:35 PM

Of course, if she does grant you permission to go fuck elsewhere, chances are she's cheating on you too. :haw:

ExAm

January 21st, 2009, 10:45 PM

The thread yes vote just hit 42. Thread over :v:

ultama121

January 21st, 2009, 10:51 PM

Rofl, what the hell kind of question is this?

Of course, if she does grant you permission to go fuck elsewhere, chances are she's cheating on you too. :haw:
^iawtp.

Apoc4lypse

January 22nd, 2009, 10:46 AM

Oh they do, just havent shown it yet. Next time you have a massive argument, she'll bring it up and say some shit about "even though I let you, I hoped you wouldnt" or some bs like that, happened to my friend. They are still seeing each other but we think shes using him for the sex.
And the stereo-type is that men are the unloyal ones...

tbh I think women are just as bad as men when it comes to being loyal, then again my first girlfriend (age 18) dumped me so she could go marry some random ass 20 yr old dude in the Navy, and she was engaged to him for like half the time she was dating me.. what the fuck.

Donut

January 22nd, 2009, 01:57 PM

Cheating...............no...It's like going to a store of a good friend and buying lots and lots of shit for them to support their business, then turning around and buying from another store behind their back.......she'll get pissed regardless.....actually come to think of it...in that case its cheating if the only thing you have in common is sex....or I could be all wrong and it's just straight out cheating.

^bet that sent you guys into a perspective you've never thought about before.
no, it didnt. sex != buying shit at a store. seriously, do you get wood while putting cereal in a shopping cart at walmart?
........ because i do :horny:

Hotrod

January 22nd, 2009, 05:08 PM

Of course, if she does grant you permission to go fuck elsewhere, chances are she's cheating on you too. :haw:
Either that or...wait, no, that's probably the case.

Lex1337

January 22nd, 2009, 05:48 PM

What your girlfriend don't know, won't hurt her.

Bodzilla

January 22nd, 2009, 05:56 PM

except for the diseases you bring back with you :awesome:

Warsaw

January 22nd, 2009, 06:12 PM

Stupid question is good. I think the first response just about summed it up nicely.

Snowy

January 22nd, 2009, 07:20 PM

Is oral sex cheating?

Phopojijo

January 22nd, 2009, 07:25 PM

Is oral sex cheating?Yes.

Bodzilla

January 22nd, 2009, 08:06 PM

Is oral sex cheating?
refer to this comment.

obviously.
your dick is going to other places without her.

Amit

January 22nd, 2009, 08:27 PM

If you're stupid enough to do it, make sure you're doing some fresh cherry popping to minimize the chance of getting a VD.

Heathen

January 22nd, 2009, 08:28 PM

Is oral sex cheating?
Uh...duh?

n00b1n8R

January 22nd, 2009, 08:31 PM

Is it cheating if you, your GF and her hot best (female) friend have a threesome, or is that just awesome?

Phopojijo

January 22nd, 2009, 08:35 PM

You can't really be cheating on your girlfriend if she consented... which she probably did if she was partaking.

Albeit expect there to be a badtimes between her and her best friend.

That's why they say "If you're going to have a threesome, choose as distant of a #3 as possible".

ExAm

January 22nd, 2009, 09:29 PM

Yes.I think willingly having any sort of sexual contact with someone else in a personal setting could be considered cheating.

January 22nd, 2009, 09:33 PM

Why does sex have to be involved in cheating?

I was under the impression that cheating was being unfaithful, with or without sex.

Phopojijo

January 22nd, 2009, 09:34 PM

I think willingly having any sort of sexual contact with someone else in a personal setting could be considered cheating.
Yeah... with an asterisk (as previously stated): If your significant other willingly consents, it's fine.

Why does sex have to be involved in cheating?

I was under the impression that cheating was being unfaithful, with or without sex.It doesn't have to be. "Sexual Contact" could be even kissing.

Though if you consider casual flirting to be cheating than you probably have to let go just a little.

January 22nd, 2009, 09:36 PM

It doesn't have to be. "Sexual Contact" could be even kissing.

Though if you consider casual flirting to be cheating than you probably have to let go just a little.

I agree, but I was just checking to see what other people had for morals.

:-)