I"LL TAKE YOU TO A GAY BAR, GAY BAR!!

[Bodzilla]

So last weekend i went to a gay night club in the Bris-vegas out in the Valley called the beat.

was pretty cool i must say.
tried about 3 pubs and clubs before we ended up there because we where just getting fucking annoyed by the shitty music.
i mean snoop dog.... are you fucking serious...

had 4 areas in it,
the street bar (shit)
out back they had the Gay bar, up top the lesbian bar and they just had a normal bar as well.
all 3 bars/ nightclubs had fucking wicked music, techno and sound pumping till 5 am.

now you see i'm a shit fucking dancer, and just sorta bust some moves and ya know, bump into people lol, where normally you'd get some dickwad wanna smack ya in the jaw ya get a laugh.
most of the night we where just chilling in the lesbian bar seeing some chickie babes getting into it, having some drinks ect.

Nightclubbing done right tbh.

Most fun i've had in a long time,
but it's a gaybar so my question is this,
who here would go to a nightclub or a bar and get wasted even though you knew it was gay?
are ya worried about seeing dick on dick action, ya worried about being hit on or would you laugh it off, trash it up and shake what joo mumma gave ya?
whats ya opinion.

[n00b1n8R]

Dude's are aloud into les bars?
Cool.

Also, would happily go to a gaybar. I knew a dude who actually worked behind the counter at one. He was straight (and a professional body builder/fitness coach :v: ), and once he made it clear that he was strait, he didn't have any issues. Apparently it was a great place to work.

[English Mobster]

If dudes are allowed into the Lesbian bar, I'm in.

[Bodzilla]

once he made it clear that he was strait, he didn't have any issues. Apparently it was a great place to work.
thats what i hear from everyone :o

but yeah apparently no one has any drama from idiots in them hey.

[FluffyDucky™]

I would join in the dick on dick action! :D Lmao, but nah I would do it (go to one).. why not? :)

[DaneO'Roo]

Bad fucking choice man. I know 3 guys who I went to tafe with who went to gay bars and got followed home/harassed in the toilets/bar/groped/almost drugged.

I can't dance with people who are only associating with me based on my sexual organs BEFORE my personality even gets included into the equation. Being straight in a place like that also introduces massive fucking confusion on both parties. Which could cause anger and a disturbance. It's just fucking stupid and evil to me, to both people.

If your straight, hang around some fucking straight people, if you want to party. Your fucking with gay peoples feelings otherwise. Don't confuse this with NEVER HANG AROUND GAY PEOPLE. I mean, don't shit up a gay guys habitat and confuse the shit out of them.

Think about it, your gay, at your home, your environment and you see a person you like, you go up to them chat them up, being a neo new world piece of shit they act all nice and rub up with them, having a chat and a drink, then at the end of the night when you ask them wether they'dlike to come back to your aplace, they tell you their straight.

That would downright piss me the fuck off if I was gay.

It's almost like straight people exploit gay people for their fun happy natured attitude for their own personal night of fun and laughs.

[FlyingStone]

You brought someone home right?

[Sel]

If dudes are allowed into the Lesbian bar, I'm in.

Is there something about homosexuality that turns you on :confused:

[mech]

Why were you dancing in a gay bar, plus gay bars are for gays :raise:

[RobertGraham]

Uhhh... oh well. As long as im having fun, and not being hit on, im cool with it. Like they say, what happens on in vegas, stays in vegas

[Mass]

http://i118.photobucket.com/albums/o97/nate-the-great_photos/abe.jpg

Maybe, I'm not into clubbing at all though, so ://///////

[Corndogman]

Is there something about homosexuality that turns you on :confused:

Umm, I thought being turned on by hot lesbians was a pretty common thing in males?

[Huero]

Bad fucking choice man. I know 3 guys who I went to tafe with who went to gay bars and got followed home/harassed in the toilets/bar/groped/almost drugged.

I can't dance with people who are only associating with me based on my sexual organs BEFORE my personality even gets included into the equation. Being straight in a place like that also introduces massive fucking confusion on both parties. Which could cause anger and a disturbance. It's just fucking stupid and evil to me, to both people.

If your straight, hang around some fucking straight people, if you want to party. Your fucking with gay peoples feelings otherwise. Don't confuse this with NEVER HANG AROUND GAY PEOPLE. I mean, don't shit up a gay guys habitat and confuse the shit out of them.

Think about it, your gay, at your home, your environment and you see a person you like, you go up to them chat them up, being a neo new world piece of shit they act all nice and rub up with them, having a chat and a drink, then at the end of the night when you ask them wether they'dlike to come back to your aplace, they tell you their straight.

That would downright piss me the fuck off if I was gay.

It's almost like straight people exploit gay people for their fun happy natured attitude for their own personal night of fun and laughs.

ALL GAY PEOPLE ARE HORNY BASTARDS THAT ARE OUT TO DO NOTHING THAN FUCK YOU
bI COMPLETELY AGREE, DANE.

But yeah if I was chilling with other guys I would totally go.

[Atty]

I would go, sure, I don't care if gay guys hit on me, I get it a lot at school actually.

[Bodzilla]

ALL GAY PEOPLE ARE HORNY BASTARDS THAT ARE OUT TO DO NOTHING THAN FUCK YOU
I COMPLETELY AGREE, DANE.
pretty much tbh.

a heap of people i know have never had a problem from them. once you make it clear your not into backdoor operations they laugh it off there.

whats this bullshit about habitats?
c'mon dane, seriously.

[ICEE]

I wouldn't be afraid to go to a gay bar. Just because a man is gay, doesn't mean he's attracted to all men. Even if I did get hit on I would laugh it off.

[RobertGraham]

Just say "Im married".

[Limited]

No lol are you serious? I'd never go to a gay bar, unless I was drunk first and got rallied into going...but I wouldnt consciously go.

Why? Its bad enough me accidentally rubbing arses with a dude in a reg club when I'm dancing, I do not want to go to a place where people "accidently on purpose" do it. Yes most gay people are tackful, but there are shady characters out there too, just like straight people.

As for going to see the lesbians? Yes there may be one or two good looking lesbians, but the majority of them will fat and ugly.

I can have a great time in a reg club I'm fine, even though I dont go out on the pull, I can still meet good looking straight girls.

[cheezdue]

Don't care if I'm hanging around gay guys, it really doesn't bother me.

[Hotrod]

I'm not really one for clubbing, not that I'm old enough anyway, so I'll go with no, I wouldn't go to a gay bar. Sorry.

Not that I mind hanging around gay people though, I know that they're great people, and them liking the same sex doesn't really make any difference at all.

[ThePlague]

Gay dudes scare me and hot lesbian chicks are win. So...I say no to a gay dude bar and a yes to a lesbian bar.

Glad you didn't get caught "off guard" Bode.

[ultama121]

Probably... my Brothers and Co. ™ used to go a bunch to lesbian and gay bars. :v:
Apparently the dancing and partying etc is pretty fun even if you aren't gay.

All that needs to happen is that at least one person in the group needs to be gay and the rest were guests or "dragged in". Oh yeah, and lets not forget we're talking California here. Hollywood to be specific. ;p

[JunkfoodMan]

It'd be cool. I'm not the biggest fan of clubbing though.
I see sexual preference with more significance than a favourite colour really.

[TeeKup]

Surprisingly I've never been to a gay bar. The closest one is in Charlotte and I hate going to that city.


Gay dudes scare me

And why is that?

[CtrlAltDestroy]

Gay dudes scare me and hot lesbian chicks are win. So...I say no to a gay dude bar and a yes to a lesbian bar.

Glad you didn't get caught "off guard" Bode.

why the double standard

[RobertGraham]

Surprisingly I've never been to a gay bar. The closest one is in Charlotte and I hate going to that city.



And why is that?Wait, you live in NC?

Elizabeth City for me, more like Elizabeth Shitty, there is nothing out here :(

[TeeKup]

No I live in upstate South Carolina.

[Choking Victim]

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/99/269014235_a4cda56809.jpg?v=0
Lesbians aren't my style.

[RobertGraham]

Errr, whats not to like about a chick with... umm, what the hell is that on her head?

@ TeeKup, holy crap, I wouldn't make that drive in my life, especially where I live, and there is really nothing in Charlotte :\

[ICEE]

Gay dudes scare me and hot lesbian chicks are win. So...I say no to a gay dude bar and a yes to a lesbian bar.

Glad you didn't get caught "off guard" Bode.

Protip: your typical lesbian does not look like megan foxx. I have seen both "butch" lesbians and lesbians who you could not pick out in a crowd, but either way watching them kiss is a huge dissapointment if your expecting porno class arousal.

Another protip: Gay dudes are no scarier than regular dudes. Of course they are still guys, and there are gay men who carry the male "pig" stereotype, so its not unlikely that you may meet one that will treat you the same way a straight perv would treat a woman.

[RobertGraham]

There is nothing wrong with Gay people. I have a Gay uncle, wise and funny as hell, then there's my cousin, and funny as hell. Once you get to know people, it makes a big difference.

[Donut]

iv got a gay uncle and a gay aunt. i love them both as much as any other family member and love spending time with them. they're pretty sutble about it too. if my dad hadnt told me my uncle was gay, i would have thought his partner was a room mate.

its teenage males who act gay to make female friends that piss me off.

[RobertGraham]

iv got a gay uncle and a gay aunt. i love them both as much as any other family member and love spending time with them. they're pretty sutble about it too. if my dad hadnt told me my uncle was gay, i would have thought his partner was a room mate.

its teenage males who act gay to make female friends that piss me off.
Why does it piss you off? Jealousy? So I guess I'm gay because I hang out with more chicks? That's supposed to be a good thing...

[thehoodedsmack]

He's saying that guys who PRETEND to be gay in order to get closer to girls piss him off.

[Donut]

Why does it piss you off? Jealousy? So I guess I'm gay because I hang out with more chicks? That's supposed to be a good thing...
no no no thats not what i meant. i mean kids who act gay in order to attain more female friends. im not saying that guys are gay just because they have alot of female friends.
and tbh if that was the case, im a massive homo. only like 6 of my friends are guys.
sorry for the mix up there
E: and im not trying to show off here. i openly admit that i couldnt get a girlfriend if i tried. it just not going to happen

[RobertGraham]

He's saying that guys who PRETEND to be gay in order to get closer to girls piss him off.Why is that a bad thing?


no no no thats not what i meant. i mean kids who act gay in order to attain more female friends. im not saying that guys are gay just because they have alot of female friends.
and tbh if that was the case, im a massive homo. only like 6 of my friends are guys.
sorry for the mix up thereThere is nothing wrong with that...

[Donut]

feigning gayness as an excuse to feel up girls? i dont know about you, but that is severely fucked up in my book

[RobertGraham]

Actually, acting feminine is a better understanding of women in general. I only use it to keep long term relationships. When I'm out with the guys, I'm the typical guy you would meet at the biker bar. :toughguy:

[Heathen]

Bad fucking choice man. I know 3 guys who I went to tafe with who went to gay bars and got followed home/harassed in the toilets/bar/groped/almost drugged.

I can't dance with people who are only associating with me based on my sexual organs BEFORE my personality even gets included into the equation. Being straight in a place like that also introduces massive fucking confusion on both parties. Which could cause anger and a disturbance. It's just fucking stupid and evil to me, to both people.

If your straight, hang around some fucking straight people, if you want to party. Your fucking with gay peoples feelings otherwise. Don't confuse this with NEVER HANG AROUND GAY PEOPLE. I mean, don't shit up a gay guys habitat and confuse the shit out of them.

Think about it, your gay, at your home, your environment and you see a person you like, you go up to them chat them up, being a neo new world piece of shit they act all nice and rub up with them, having a chat and a drink, then at the end of the night when you ask them wether they'dlike to come back to your aplace, they tell you their straight.

That would downright piss me the fuck off if I was gay.

It's almost like straight people exploit gay people for their fun happy natured attitude for their own personal night of fun and laughs.

No lol are you serious? I'd never go to a gay bar, unless I was drunk first and got rallied into going...but I wouldnt consciously go.

Why? Its bad enough me accidentally rubbing arses with a dude in a reg club when I'm dancing, I do not want to go to a place where people "accidently on purpose" do it. Yes most gay people are tackful, but there are shady characters out there too, just like straight people.

As for going to see the lesbians? Yes there may be one or two good looking lesbians, but the majority of them will fat and ugly.

I can have a great time in a reg club I'm fine, even though I dont go out on the pull, I can still meet good looking straight girls.


Gay dudes scare me and hot lesbian chicks are win. So...I say no to a gay dude bar and a yes to a lesbian bar.

Glad you didn't get caught "off guard" Bode.

Lots of homophobes in here ;)



Tbh I have a gay uncle, lots of gay friends, and personally find them to be infinitely more cultured and funner to be around than their heterosexual counterparts. I guess you could say I perfer the company of gays.
My Aunt Michael (his nickname, not ours) is one of the most incredible people I know and he is gay. I never thought that literally 99.999 percent of all gays I met were just as impressive.

[BobtheGreatII]

I have a couple of gay friends. I've never been bothered by it.

[Donut]

Actually, acting feminine is a better understanding of women in general. I only use it to keep long term relationships. When I'm out with the guys, I'm the typical guy you would meet at the biker bar. :toughguy:
i agree with you there. im not a tough guy either way. im not talking about being effeminate though. im talking about acting flat out gay for manipulative purposes. i think its wrong and disrespectful to everything everybody involved
E: fixed accidental hypocriticalness

[RobertGraham]

i agree with you there. im not a tough guy either way. im not talking about being effeminate though. im talking about acting flat out gay for manipulative purposes. i think its wrong and disrespectful to everything everybody involved
E: fixed accidental hypocriticalness
Errr... I really didn't get what you meant by that. The only thing I understood was

i agree with you there. im not a tough guy either way.

everything after that was like :confused:

[Donut]

you said you act feminine to build long lasting relationships with your female friends right? i dont see a problem there. my issue is with guys who are straight, but ACT gay so they can get away with feeling up girls.
maybe you have never seen that, but i see it all the time with this kid in my gym class. he acts gay, most people think he is gay, and girls flock to him for some reason. he purposely touches their breasts when playing with them, but they let him get away with it because they believe that hes gay. i think thats fucking rude and wrong.

[Bodzilla]

Errr... I really didn't get what you meant by that. The only thing I understood was


everything after that was like :confused:
you've got a bad case of downs if you cant understand him by now.

But actually one of the biggest things i dont like about going out is the scene involved around it. you know, ya typical wankers wanting to start fights, shit music and just dickheads in general.
but the thing is these same people are scared of walking through a door that has "gay" written above it, so therefore there isnt anywhere near the number of ignorant, arrogant hooting dickholes shitting the place up.

was infinitely more win when i went tbh.
everyone just wanted to get drunk, dance and listen to good music.
works for me.

[n00b1n8R]

No lol are you serious? I'd never go to a gay bar, unless I was drunk first and got rallied into going...but I wouldnt consciously go.

Why? Its bad enough me accidentally rubbing arses with a dude in a reg club when I'm dancing, I do not want to go to a place where people "accidently on purpose" do it. Yes most gay people are tackful, but there are shady characters out there too, just like straight people.
How did you become so self conscious? :confused:
It boggles the mind.

[Hotrod]

you said you act feminine to build long lasting relationships with your female friends right? i dont see a problem there. my issue is with guys who are straight, but ACT gay so they can get away with feeling up girls.
maybe you have never seen that, but i see it all the time with this kid in my gym class. he acts gay, most people think he is gay, and girls flock to him for some reason. he purposely touches their breasts when playing with them, but they let him get away with it because they believe that hes gay. i think thats fucking rude and wrong.
I agree with you on this. To act as a different person just to be able to do things like that to girls is just plain wrong. I'm surprised that nobody else sees it but you. However, how do you know that he isn't gay?

I've met several people who were gay, and to be honest, they were very good people, always polite and stuff. Of course, there are a lot of non-gay people like that, but to hate people just because they're gay seems silly to me.

[Matooba]

What if you did meet a girl there but yet it wasn't a girl at all?
http://img255.imageshack.us/img255/4871/girlingaybar.jpg

Goto a strip club for girl on girl action.

[Limited]

Lots of homophobes in here ;)
Im not a homophobe, I have no problem with gay guys, only thing is I dont want to see them kissing another dude right in front of me. They can do whatever they want just dont get me involved.

I find it funny the fact most of you have never been clubbing and assume theres no difference between out and about, and in a club.

There is a big difference between just chilling with some one who happens to be gay doesnt mean anything, to hanging around in a gay bar.

Back in the universities' residence there was a guy on my floor, got on really well with him and so did everyone else, he came out and told us he was gay, we had no clue and thought he was just good friends with the girls just because he was a playa lol. After telling us, he never associated himself with me and my friends and never talked to us.

I still dont understand why he doesnt talk to me, him being gay doesnt change anything between me and him.

[n00b1n8R]

He probably thinks it does?

Go and talk to him. >.>

[Heathen]

Lol, but I love how most heterosexual think that gay guys ALL wanna fuck them. My friends are convinced that if they were ever around a gay he would like rape them.

[RobertGraham]

Why does everyone think gay people just want to bend you over and give you muffins? They are normal people, just with a different sexuality. :|

[Corndogman]

People are afraid of gay people because of the common stereotype that all they do is want to have sex with you and nothing else. But its hard not to see them that way, for instance when you see a gay pride rally or parade, you always see those muscular, oiled up guys in spedo's dancing around perversely. And its true that some of them are like that, and those are the kind that really annoy me, because it would not be acceptable for any straight man to do that.

Exhibit A: http://www.gridskipper.com/assets/resources/2006/06/06192006.3.jpg

On the other hand though, there are the ones who act completely normal, and just happen to be gay. I honestly wouldn't mind going to a gay bar if all of them were just normal people, who happened to be gay, and are there to dance, then sure why not? But I'll be honest, if I say anyone like the men in the picture up there, I would be very uncomfortable.

[Heathen]

No, its just stupid people that think that. Its not a common stereotype.

[MetKiller Joe]

Its an awesome thought (refering to the first post). I haven't been to clubs in Boston, mainly because I've been spoiled by the many clubs back in Europe (Aquarius and others whose names I can't think of at the moment); to me, Boston is a city and I associate cities having seedy clubs (I also never hear people going to them).

Good times. It is sad to see that we can't just, you know, talk about gay/mixed clubs casually like they were any other club and not start pages of dialog about homophobia.

[Limited]

Why does everyone think gay people just want to bend you over and give you muffins? They are normal people, just with a different sexuality. :|
No one here has said that, so quit putting words into our mouths.

All I'm saying, is I personally avoid the places. As the name shows, Gay Bar, so it should be for gay people, I'm not gay.

Simple.

Also going just to see lesbians is so fucking lame.

[Heathen]

>.> Its not a GAYS ONLY bar.

Such places are illegal.

[Huero]

this topic needs to be terminated
there's too much homophobia and outright stupidity in it :(

[RobertGraham]

this topic needs to be terminated
there's too much homophobia and outright stupidity in it :(^This. :goat:

[n00b1n8R]

Not really.
Gay threads don't usually get locked untill they divolve into "HURR I'M RIGHT YOU'RE IGNORANT" vs "HURR I'M RIGHT YOU'RE A FAGGOTLOVER"

[Donut]

I agree with you on this. To act as a different person just to be able to do things like that to girls is just plain wrong. I'm surprised that nobody else sees it but you. However, how do you know that he isn't gay?
if i could get you a video of how this kid acts, it would be pretty apparent that hes purposely abusing his "privilege." the kid is all over the girls he hangs out with. he says shit like, "so does anyone else touch you like this?" i can not imagine that hes actually gay, and if he is, hes still a pervert. more so than if he wasnt.
even if he is gay, people that do what i previously described still exist and it still pisses me off

[RobertGraham]

if i could get you a video of how this kid acts, it would be pretty apparent that hes purposely abusing his "privilege." the kid is all over the girls he hangs out with. he says shit like, "so does anyone else touch you like this?" i can not imagine that hes actually gay, and if he is, hes still a pervert. more so than if he wasnt.
even if he is gay, people that do what i previously described still exist and it still pisses me off
That's not perverted. I do it all the time ;) I only do it when were screwing around though, not just randomly and saying "Oops, sorry I grabbed your boobs like that".

[ICEE]

Shut up friends. This is a stupid argument.

[thehoodedsmack]

That's not perverted. I do it all the time ;) I only do it when were screwing around though, not just randomly and saying "Oops, sorry I grabbed your boobs like that".

You still haven't picked up on anything that's been said, have you? The underlying message that's trying to be presented to you is that deceiving women by pretending to be gay is bad. Something 'bout you ain't right.

[RobertGraham]

:confused:

I wasn't trying to argue, I was just telling my experience with it :smith:

I'm just gonna stop posting in this thread... for now

[paladin]

i wanna go with you.

[Heathen]

No, its just stupid people that think that. Its not a common stereotype.
Let me rephrase this because this does sound sort of off.

Its not a very common stereotype amongst smart rational people. I have only seen it A LOT around here because I live in louisiana and if you dont hunt & fish and go "muddin" you are pretty much labeled gay.

[MetKiller Joe]

Wow, a page ago somebody said stop the crap. Even if it is backseat moderation, come on. This thread is about visiting mixed/gay bars, not about stereotypes and homophobia. It is Bodzilla's thread, not yours.

[mech]

Going "muddin" sounds gay in itself heathen.

[Corndogman]

Let me rephrase this because this does sound sort of off.

Its not a very common stereotype amongst smart rational people. I have only seen it A LOT around here because I live in louisiana and if you dont hunt & fish and go "muddin" you are pretty much labeled gay.

Heh, thats pretty much exactly what I meant though. Lets face it, a lot of young people are just fucking stupid these days, so the stereotype is more apparent in those people.

[RobertGraham]

Heh, thats pretty much exactly what I meant though. Lets face it, a lot of young people are just fucking stupid these days, so the stereotype is more apparent in those people.
Very true. A lot of the morons at my school think that because I believe in Science, I am defying god ( :XD: ) That's a typical north carolinian for you :|