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PopeAK49
November 12th, 2009, 12:36 AM
My sister had to get a C-section a month ago because the baby she has was not breathing at all. The doctors had to put her on an ecto machine to constantly put oxygen in her blood. She fought hard and strong for a new born. She faced a heart defect, a damaged left lung that was removed, and kidney failure. Things got really tense when we tried to see how she did without an ecto machine, which didn't work out at all. We then found out she was missing this part of her body (forgot what the name was.) so she was treated as an AIDs patient because nothing could protect her from a heart infection. She then over heated which caused brain damage. My sister talked to the doctors and made the hard decision. The doctors took Adriana off the machine and layed her in my sisters arms. Adriana squeezed my sisters finger and stared right into her eyes. The seconds passing made Adriana loosen her grip on my sisters finger. She now lies motionless. She is now in a better place. RIP Adriana. You didn't deserve this. You were just a baby. I was really hoping for you to be my neice tell the day I die, not until the day you die.

DEElekgolo
November 12th, 2009, 12:40 AM
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jcap
November 12th, 2009, 12:46 AM
The doctors took Adriana off the machine and layed her in my sisters arms. Adriana squeezed my sisters finger and stared right into her eyes. The seconds passing made Adriana loosen her grip on my sisters finger. She now lies motionless. She is now in a better place.
I really don't know how to comment.

Pyong Kawaguchi
November 12th, 2009, 12:52 AM
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TeeKup
November 12th, 2009, 12:56 AM
My sister recently gave birth to my baby nephew Brayden. When I held him, he smiled at me, grasping my shirt, I almost cried in the hospital that day from seeing him.

To see such a frail thing die is nothing short of absolute pain. I'm unbelievably sorry for you and for your sister. Her journey was too short, she's with god now.

Gwunty
November 12th, 2009, 01:01 AM
Thats terrible :smithfrog:

annihilation
November 12th, 2009, 01:12 AM
:smith:
I'm going with Jcap on this one.
I really don't know how to comment on this.

Heathen
November 12th, 2009, 02:21 AM
My cousin has lost 3 babies recently :(

n00b1n8R
November 12th, 2009, 02:27 AM
This is probably the most serious thread I've seen here in the last 3 years.

What do you say? "I'm sorry for your loss" really doesn't cut it for something like this, I can't imagine how it must feel to be in your situation, let alone your sisters and I don't know if I'd have had the courage to do what she did for her kid (I think she made the right choice by the way).

Bodzilla
November 12th, 2009, 03:23 AM
the reason why you cant figure how to respond to this is there is no way to do it.
this is when you stand and let them respond to you.

poor mate i feel for ya.

ICEE
November 12th, 2009, 03:44 AM
My condolences... Guess there isn't a lot more to say than that

CN3089
November 12th, 2009, 05:24 AM
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Ganon
November 12th, 2009, 07:48 AM
sorry for your loss brosef

L0d3x
November 12th, 2009, 08:07 AM
Reading this gave me goose-bumps.
Sorry to hear this.

Trulife8342
November 12th, 2009, 09:15 AM
I'm sorry man, Your family will be in my prayers tonight just stay strong and weather the storm.. I truly am sorry.

Cojafoji
November 12th, 2009, 10:37 AM
Jesus that sucks. Sorry dude.

cheezdue
November 12th, 2009, 03:00 PM
I'm really sorry to hear about that.

Dwood
November 12th, 2009, 03:27 PM
Way to make us all depressed man. :smith:

Advancebo
November 12th, 2009, 03:40 PM
:gonk:

teh lag
November 12th, 2009, 04:13 PM
:(? Emotes certainly aren't so appropriate right now, but it's all I can think of.

I don't think there's much people on a forum like ours can say or do for you after a loss like that except give cliché condolence phrases. Talk with people you know well.

STLRamsFan
November 12th, 2009, 04:18 PM
Wow man, I really don't know what to say. My thoughts and prayers are to you and your family during this difficult time.

RIP Adriana

Horns
November 12th, 2009, 08:06 PM
That's very unfortunate man. I somewhat know what you are going through.

My sister just had her 2nd child (My niece) on tuesday after having a miscarriage on her last baby. The baby and my sister were supposed to be discharged today but the baby had to stay because she has a heart murmur and they think it might be serious. Hopefully it turns out not to be anything too bad.

But once again, sorry for your lose.

ultama121
November 12th, 2009, 09:46 PM
Sorry Pope... this is hard, but you'll get through it.

SnaFuBAR
November 13th, 2009, 04:35 AM
There's something called tact* guys. You should look into it, and use it.

If anyone else feels like being a completely insensitive FUCK, there will be consequences. You can be judicious with your posts, or else penalties.

*fuck you i don't need tact. hth

Neuro Guro
November 13th, 2009, 01:16 PM
There's something called tact* guys. You should look into it, and use it.

If anyone else feels like being a completely insensitive FUCK, there will be consequences. You can be judicious with your posts, or else penalties.

*fuck you i don't need tact. hth

That's right, and if you have a more realistic, sardonic, or objective opinion on death, then by golly-gosh the moral patrol will have a field day with you.

Ganon
November 13th, 2009, 04:11 PM
That's right, and if you have a more realistic, sardonic, or objective opinion on death, then by golly-gosh the moral patrol will have a field day with you.

So you don't respect other's beliefs and relish in retaliating in the same sense that most religious "extremists" do to people who do not share those same beliefs and opinions?

If you want a realistic opinion on how you represent your beliefs here, you are low class.

Alwin Roth
November 13th, 2009, 05:01 PM
sorry to hear this...

Hope you and your family recover soon.

Terry
November 15th, 2009, 04:26 PM
Sorry for your loss.

I'm guessing she was born without a spleen?

Siliconmaster
November 15th, 2009, 08:41 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. This thread made me :smith:

I send my deepest condolences to you and your sister. And of course Adriana- she left too soon.

PopeAK49
November 17th, 2009, 07:19 PM
Sorry for your loss.

I'm guessing she was born without a spleen?

No not a spleen. It was something near the collar bone area, I just forgot what it was called.

My teacher had a baby and is telling all the students "O, my little baby boy has ammonia. He will be okay though." Then he had to flash pictures of his newly born. Then at the end of the slide with the last picture of his baby coming home after the ammonia incident decided to say "It's a good thing that in this world we are all remain healthy and remain strong an alive." After that, it set me off and I just walked out of the classroom. I told him what happened to my sister but he still wanted to show his pictures even in front of me. He's the fucking devil.

I have pictures of Adriana but I'm not going to show you the pictures with her chest opened up. Believe me you don't want to see it, even though I love the baby a lot, I threw up. Every picture is basically her in this baby bed with a massive ecto machine keeping her alive. So do you guys want to see pictures or should I keep them to me and my family?

arbiter901
November 17th, 2009, 07:27 PM
I'm sorry for the loss :smith:

ICEE
November 17th, 2009, 07:45 PM
I would probably keep the pictures to myself. It seems that some people on this forum can't stay civil.

MastaCheefa
November 17th, 2009, 11:22 PM
O please post them... I think I speak for most everyone on this.

Gwunty
November 18th, 2009, 12:31 AM
No you dont

I suggest you keep these to yourself pope

annihilation
November 18th, 2009, 04:50 PM
Keep them to yourself.
I wouldn't keep them if I was you. I wouldn't want pictures of someone I loved in that kind of condition.

n00b1n8R
November 18th, 2009, 05:45 PM
wtc, keep them to yourself :gonk:

SiriusTexra
November 21st, 2009, 08:29 AM
So do you guys want to see pictures or should I keep them to me and my family?

what the fuck are you doing.

STLRamsFan
November 21st, 2009, 09:00 AM
Listen, stuff like that should never be posted on a public forum. And quite honestly, I personally wouldn't keep photos of someone I cared about in that kind of condition, would make things harder on you to keep seeing them. If you really feel the urge to post them up somewhere, post them on something that's more private. Also, I'm not sure your family would feel comfortable having you post them here if not at all.

justin108
November 21st, 2009, 09:51 AM
I am about to be a father and this is one of my worse fears. I hope your family can find some peace during such and awful time.

PopeAK49
November 21st, 2009, 02:58 PM
You guys really thought I was going to show you pics?

StankBacon
November 21st, 2009, 03:01 PM
this thread should never have been made at all.

Boba
November 21st, 2009, 04:08 PM
You guys really thought I was going to show you pics?
well it could be the fact you're trying to get yourself out from making a shitty post by acting like you were joking

welp

Ganon
November 21st, 2009, 04:22 PM
HEY NO OFFENSE BUT

PEOPLE NEED TO NOT MAKE THREADS ABOUT REAL LIFE ON THE INTERNET

hey