I need you guys to settle a dispute for me...

[Roostervier]

I would never think of asking my best guy friend about the size of his penis unless we were, you know, dating or something, and talk about the intimate areas is somewhat warranted.

Penis size and the pigment of one's pubic hair are no where near similar. but really, you probably shouldn't have asked that. unless you were on really good terms with this girl, in no way was that ever a good idea. pushing her was even worse. yeah she might be wrong but there's no changing, really, how she feels now. just don't make the same mistake another time, lol.

[ICEE]

Ginger here, asking us if we're fire crotch's is no biggy, ignore all the idiots who don't have a clue what they're talking about~

Hey, your a male ginger. She's a female ginger. Your opinion is invalid here.
And for the record, I didn't state my opinion. I stated the fact that people ask, and that it is evidently a big deal to her.

[n00b1n8R]

Hey, your a male ginger. She's a female ginger. Your opinion is invalid here.
And for the record, I didn't state my opinion. I stated the fact that people ask, and that it is evidently a big deal to her.

Female rangers I know don't care either.
Seriously Jay, are you like 14 or something?

[English Mobster]

16, almost 17.
If it helps, she just turned 15. The two of us dated for two months before she broke it off. We stayed close friends (she was my best friend at one point), and I would repeatedly joke about her boobs and such, which she never seemed to take too badly.

Things were fine between us until this happened.
Also, to clear it up, she has two circles of friends: Her online friends (five or six former IRL friends from where she used to live, in Utah) and her IRL friends.

[Donut]

is she going to read this thread? i really hope so. luls will ensue.
poll is misleading. should say who is in the WRONG, in which case id check off both bubbles. let me break this down to the best of my ability (keeping in mind that i pretty much detest how females handle everything):
first off im going to be totally blunt and say that if your two best friends are girls (and as i recall you are my age, fuck this age group), youre setting yourself up for some ridiculously melo-dramatic bullshitery. girls at this age will bitch and carry on just to get attention if nothing else.

My best friend (let's call her "Ruth") and I are no longer on speaking terms, and she says it's all my fault.
Essentially, here's the facts:

• About a week ago, I made a lighthearted comment, asking her what color her crotch hair was (she's a redhead). I didn't mean anything by it.
  your first comment was fine. its a bit off color, not something i would ask someone, but its nothing to throw a pissy fit for.
• She immediately took offense and punched me in the arm, which prompted a quick apology from myself.
  i can understand her punching you in the arm, kind of like a knee-jerk "offended" reaction. your apology should have been enough to cover this.
• She refused to talk to me for the rest of the day (despite me apologizing three more times).
  like i said before, melo-dramatic bullshit. you shouldnt have apologized. let her cool off on her own. if shes not willing to accept it the first time, then fuck her. she can stew for a day.
• The next day, she still wasn't talking to me. I decided to let her go and calm down, so I leave her alone for the weekend.
  smart move.
• Today, my other best friend (let's call her "Holly") comes up to talk to me. Apparently, at Ruth's birthday party, Ruth came up to Holly and told her she shouldn't hang out with me anymore. Holly tried to make amends and get Ruth to see that she was being irrational, but Ruth just ignored her.
  remember when i said i hate how girls handle shit? this is what i mean. they pull every other girl they know into it, and then the girls who get pulled into it are just as dumb and automatically take her side because "aww, she feels bad". looks like you lucked out with "holly", as it seems that didnt happen with her.
• This prompted a... somewhat violent reaction from me, and I yelled at Ruth for trying to get my best friends to leave me. I give Ruth a shove at the end because she isn't listening to anything I'm saying. The shove isn't hard enough to hurt her, but I hoped that it would knock some sense into her and make her see that she's being irrational.
  when you say not listening, do you mean staring off with an irritated look on her face, or carrying on like a child with her hands on her ears? the shove was a bad idea imo because again, girls summon their holy circle of friends to go against you.
  im going to go off topic here for a second and just make sure you realize that when girls start talking to their friends about who's an asshole, etc..., that shit spreads so far that people you dont even know will be giving you the stink-eye, and youll never even know why.
  also youre not supposed to hit girls or anything like that. i could write a god damn novel explaining why thats a double standard, but thats for another day. keep yourself out of trouble, and dont do anything like that again.
  
• Ruth complains to all her friends that I have done some great wrong to her, about half of whom now want to beat the living shit out of me. Ruth is still ignoring me, and has blocked any attempts by myself to bring about negotiations or any kind of reconciliation.
  what did i say above? all i can tell you here is that if anyone confronts you, keep your cool and tell them to "consider the source". if they give you that "what the fuck" look, just briefly explain that you know this "ruth" character has turned them against you, and that if theyre that immature that they cant look at both sides before forming an opinion, they can fuck right off along with ruth
• She has also stopped listening to Holly or any of her other real-world friends, all of whom have taken my side on the matter. She insists that I have done something majorly fucked-up and should do something about it to appease her, although she neglects to tell me what it is I should do about it.
  HAHA! appease her? oh god damn fuck that. if there was any sympathy for this asshat at any point in this story, it is goner than gone now. its a good thing holly has a good head on her shoulders. dont give a fuck what ruth wants from you now. shes being an immature brat trying to get negative attention from you. dont even pay attention to her anymore. if she cant see that shes losing a good friend, then good. she doesnt deserve you, and you dont deserve the shit shes giving you. if she confronts you negatively (that is to say, to bitch more) just tell her you really wish she would be more mature about the situation, and walk away. its an ego hit to walk away from somebody you know you can beat (verbally or otherwise), but believe me, its going to hurt her ego alot more.

I brought this up here to get your guys' opinion on this and maybe knock some sense into her. Any advice would help as well.

responses in BOLD. i sincerely hope i helped you with the situation
E: also im really hoping you didnt leave anything else out here, because im noticing quite a bit of hypocrisy in my argument when i say "look at both sides of the situation" and i automatically take your side.

[Aerowyn]

If it helps, she just turned 15. The two of us dated for two months before she broke it off. We stayed close friends (she was my best friend at one point), and I would repeatedly joke about her boobs and such, which she never seemed to take too badly.

How about you take a seat right over there?

[L0d3x]

Nothing wrong with the ginger vagina hair comment, but never hit girls, they can however hit you, that's how the world spins.

[Bodzilla]

Shove a guy and get punched in the face, shove a girl and get bitched at. It's how it works the vast majority of the time.

Wisdom.

[Timo]

Also, asking a guy if he's rockin' a fire crotch is OK (if you know him), but you're just looking for it by asking a girl tbh.

[Llama Juice]

I don't like this thread, last time you made a thread like this your sister died.